I have a question for some of you. ?

Why is it when people answer questions here in "Marriage & Divorce" people get so rude? It's like they don't care about the problem these people are having. These are serious problems for these people. Whether or not you think it is a totally stupid question, and I agree that some are, they are asking for help. Question like "Is it ok to cheat on my wife" and "How can I make my husband love me" should not be given answers like "It's wrong and your a pig." or "What a stupid question you're a loser". If you give answers like that why even answer? That is just being mean and spiteful. Unless you have something relevant to say some thing that will make a point as to why it is not ok to cheat on your wife or why her husband cannot be made to love her your answer will only get ignored. People be helpful not hurtful it just makes sense.